Anyone looking for love knows there’s nothing worse than finding a cheater on a dating app. But what if you know this unfaithful person or they’re in a relationship with your friend? Do you expose them?
Waterloo, Ont., dating coach Chantal Heide says cheating has become much easier with dating apps because they facilitate the leading factor that causes people to cheat — attraction.
“Swipe right if you’d sleep with them, swipe left if no. Cheaters play a numbers game, in essence playing to the laws of averages,” she tells Global News.
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“Apps make it very easy to reach out to numerous people in a short period of time, and the onus is on the person on the other end to do some vetting if honesty is an important criteria.”
Ceilidhe Wynn, an Ottawa-based matchmaker with Friend of a Friend Matchmaking, says it’s also about variety.
“It is really easy to go online and pick someone from a list of names and pictures,” she says. “Everyone also seems more anonymous, there’s a disconnect that makes [cheaters] feel like they won’t get caught or that they’re cheating.”
How cheaters function online
Heide says there are two types of cheaters on apps like Tinder and Bumble: those looking for “hopeful” people and those who are just looking for sex.
“Hopeful” people want commitment and intimacy, but they also make easy targets for cheaters. These daters may believe what the cheater is saying is truthful, and end up having sex with them to create an intimate bond.
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And it’s really easy for those who fall into the latter category, in particular.
“The number one reason apps are the main tool for cheaters is convenience,” Heide explains. “In a few minutes they can be up and running, and finding someone who hopes that what they’re saying is the truth.”.
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If you catch a cheater
But as an outsider looking in, what should you do if you catch someone cheating on their partner online?
Heide says you should let the person who is being cheated on know as soon as possible.
“Cheating partners are already showing reckless behaviour, and they may be having unprotected sex and could ultimately infect their partners with an STI.”
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“The unknowing partner is at risk, and you’d be doing them a favour by alerting them to the fact that they’re potentially in danger,” she says.
In April 2016, a company even came out with a website that allowed you see if your partner was cheating on you on Tinder, Vanity Fair reports. Swipebuster allowed users to add in the first name, location and age of the potential cheater.
If you don’t want to get involved
Some people just don’t want to get involved, however, especially in someone else’s clearly complicated love life.
Wynn says sometimes people can also make assumptions and jump to conclusions about the “cheater.”
“What if this couple is an open relationship and you’re not close enough to know about it? It has to be on a case-by-case basis.”
In this case, Heide recommends setting up a fake e-mail account and reaching out anonymously.
“If you want your friend to know but don’t want to get dragged into their messy relationship problems, you can always create a fake e-mail account and send a link to the profile you discovered.”
Sometimes it’s better not to meddle
Wynn maintains that when it comes to cheating, it can often be better to avoid meddling with someone else’s relationship, especially if you don’t know them well.
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“At the end of the day, that’s a hard thing to hear and it would feel embarrassing. There’s almost no doubt the person is going to react negatively and probably towards you.”
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The term “burning up the course” will take on new meaning this summer in Mill Woods. ATCO will be on site for a good chunk of the summer, burying deeper natural gas pipelines that need to be lowered because of Valley Line LRT construction.
At some point during the process there will be flaring.
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Joan Kirillo, the business manager with MCARFA, the not-for-profit agency that runs the course in partnership with the city, only found out late last week how extensive the job will be this summer.
“They’re not telling us enough information,” Kirillo told reporters after appearing before city council’s executive committee Tuesday.
“I’ve been working with the city on this since 2012 and I’ve always been told: there’s no relocation of the pipelines.”
“It wasn’t until somebody sent me an email about moving one of our gates that is on that area that they went, ‘Oh, by the way, the relocation is happening.’”
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City Coun. Mike Nickel was also shocked by the turn of events.
“I know so little about it, that’s my point. I’d like to know because I think my constituents would like to know exactly what they’re doing, when they’re doing it, what mitigation, if any, needs to be done.
“I mean, when you’re flaring a gas line in the middle of a city, wouldn’t you like to know? I would.”
Kirillo has asked for compensation from the Valley Line LRT project since work will begin this month, and she said the email from ATCO indicates the pipeline work will be between July 25 and Aug. 31. A pump house on the corner of the property at 66 Street needs to be moved, which also means pipelines have to be moved as well and buried deeper.
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“Those pipelines have to be lowered. My understanding from the pipeline companies [is that] they have to be lowered because of the vibrations of the train. So they’re lowering them under 66 Street which means directional drilling, which could be okay, but where they’re showing the dig sites it’s right on our No. 3 green, right beside it.”
She’s been told that compensation will be on a “case-by-case basis.”
“That’s a really good lawyer answer, isn’t it?” she said.
Staff at the course, at the height of golf season in the summer, numbers about 50, Kirillo said.
“As people who are employing people and running businesses to hear, ‘We don’t pay,’ that’s just a standard law answer. Good on them, but we won’t give up.”
“There are 80 golf courses within 20 minutes of Edmonton. If we don’t have a full facility that’s really run properly, people will just go somewhere else.”
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Nickel has asked questions before about performance measures from TransEd, the P-3 consortium building the Valley Line.
“P-3s only work well if there’s good communication between the partners and right now I’m not seeing it.”
With all eyes on the real estate markets in Ontario cities, the London and St. Thomas Association of Realtors is trumpeting April as a record month for home sales.
An announcement from LSTAR says 1,220 homes were sold in the month, marking an increase of 14.2 per cent over April of 2016.
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“This represents the best results ever for April since LSTAR began tracking sales data in 1978,” the association said in a statement.
The most significant increase was in condominium sales, which went up by more than 25 per cent since last year. The 971 detached home sales signified an uptick of 11.7 per cent over 2016.
LSTAR’s president, Jim Smith, said this makes a continuation on what’s been a banner year for the organization with every month breaking previous records.
“After the first four months, we’re about 25 per cent ahead in home sales compared to 2016,” said Smith. “It just shows how desirable the region is, when you consider affordability, accessibility and lifestyle. London and St. Thomas have so many features that make them an attractive destination to live, work, raise families and retire. We’ve got farm-to-table restaurants, London Knights hockey, big-name concerts and culture such as the North American Railway Hall of Fame, and the Grand Theatre.”
In St. Thomas specifically, the average home price has increased by over nine per cent since March to $270,439 —; well behind the average London price of $347,062.
“A new urban national park on the island would not only respond to a need, but would also send a strong signal in favour of the protection and preservation of our green spaces,” said Eric Alan Caldwell, the party’s urban planning spokesperson.
He explained other national parks around Montreal like Oka, Îles-de-Boucherville, and Mont-Saint-Bruno are filled to capacity with over 1.7 million annual visits.
The creation of a Pierrefonds-West national park would consolidate 16 square kilometres of territory, encompassing the Morgan Arboretum, the Bois-de-la-Roche Agricultural Park, l’Anse-à-l’Orme, and the Cap-Saint-Jacques Nature Park.
The party’s leader said the area would almost be equivalent to Îles-de-Boucherville and Mont-Saint-Bruno combined.
“It is up to us to protect them for future generations and to ensure that our families will continue to enjoy them in the years to come,” she said.
“We want all Montrealers to benefit from these pristine natural areas.”
Public hearings on the future of the land begin Tuesday, May 2 at 7 p.m. at Pierrefonds-Roxboro City Hall.
All public hearings are taking place at Pierrefonds-Roxboro City Hall (13664 Pierrefonds Blvd.):
May 2 – 7 p.m.May 8 – 1 p.m. and 7 p.m.May 9 – 7 p.m.May 10 – 1 p.m. and 7 p.m.May 11 – 1 p.m.May 15 – 1.p.m. and 7 p.m.
Defence Minister Harjit Sajjan has bowed out of an annual fundraising event originally set up for veterans of the war in Afghanistan, an event whose main beneficiaries include military personnel returning from combat.
The embattled defence minister is, however, pressing ahead with a speech Wednesday to members of the Conference of Defence Associations Institute, billed by his department as an update on “the state of Canadian defence.”
Sajjan had been scheduled to speak at the 8th annual “To the ‘Stan and Back” event Tuesday, but founder Cheri Elliott said she was told a scheduling conflict had arisen and he would not be able to attend.
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“The official reason for his not being able to attend is he was asked to be elsewhere at the time. That is what I was told,” said Elliott, who is the mother of a serving Canadian Forces member.
The minister spoke at the same event last year, which raises money for service members as well as first responders dealing with PTSD and other psychological trauma.
Sajjan, a former soldier and veteran of the Afghan war, was back in question period Tuesday, where he again met sustained fire for having exaggerated his role in Operation Medusa, a key battle involving the Canadian Forces in Afghanistan in 2006.
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Prime Minister Justin Trudeau stood alongside his embattled defence minister as interim Conservative leader Rona Ambrose picked up where she had left off, again calling for Sajjan’s resignation.
Ambrose accused Sajjan during question period of having embellished his military record for political gain, while Trudeau praised Sajjan’s “exemplary record” as a soldier, police officer and minister.
The prime minister also rebuffed NDP calls to open an inquiry into the treatment of detainees in Afghanistan, which Sajjan had earlier refused.
The partisan bickering on Tuesday extended beyond question period, as the Liberals pushed back a so-called opposition day that they had promised to the Conservatives for Thursday.
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Conservative House leader Candice Bergen accused the government of postponing the opposition day until next week to avoid a full day of questions about Sajjan’s comments and conduct.
Central to that would have been a non-binding motion the Tories say they intended to table and which would have seen MPs vote on whether they still had confidence in the defence minister.
“The minister of defence has to resign, and this is a motion that would have forced the prime minister and the minister of defence to address this,” Bergen said.
“It would have been all day on Thursday, and instead they’re running scared.”
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Government House Leader Bardish Chagger, however, said the scheduled opposition day had to be postponed because more time was needed this week to debate a bill that would implement the budget.
“There’s a slight tweaking taking place in the calendar because we do need to debate certain pieces of legislation,” she said.
Meanwhile, a watchdog group that tracks military imposters says many veterans are still upset with Sajjan despite his apology Monday, but that Ambrose went too far in accusing him of “stolen valour.”
A documentary released Wednesday includes never-before-seen video and photos of the heroic efforts displayed by RCMP members during the Fort McMurray wildfire.
Footage captured by an RCMP videographer starting on May 4, 2016, combined with video from cameras mounted on RCMP vehicles during the May 3 evacuation, make up the 14-minute documentary.
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The film, called Boots on the Ground: Nature of the Beast, was produced by Alberta RCMP.
RCMP Sgt. Jack Poitras says the footage is “compelling.”
“I think the public would like to see what the event was like from the members’ point of view,” he said. “It gives you a whole new perspective on their dedication.”
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In a news release, the RCMP said the video “captures breathtaking… images and footage of the fire’s devastation and the brave men and women who remained on duty to ensure the safety of Fort McMurray residents.”
Poitras says the video from the dashcams is time-stamped and there’s a moment that captures the exact turning point in the emergency.
“It was 3:30… and it goes from clear as day to when you can’t see anything at all.”
The documentary was made public exactly one year after the wildfire forced 88,000 people out of the region.
“Most people were fairly calm when you spoke to them,” Wood Buffalo RCMP Sgt. Jonathan Baltzer says in the film. “And if you looked in their eyes, they weren’t.”
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“I have so much respect for the work that our employees put in during the Wood Buffalo wildfires,” said Deputy Commissioner Todd Shean, commanding officer of K Division. “They worked tirelessly to ensure the safe evacuation of the residents.”
“Our job is to protect and preserve life, first and foremost,” Baltzer said.
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Poitras said about 140 RCMP officers were stationed at the Wood Buffalo detachment when the fire hit.
Instead of fleeing or trying to protect their own homes, members got to work in the region, many of them directing traffic during the mass exodus. Many officers worked 72 hours straight; others even longer. Fifteen officers lost their homes in the fire.
“Everybody called it ‘The Beast’ because it was so out of control, it was so unpredictable,” Baltzer said. “You look at the aftermath of it and it just seemed fickle. It would pick off two dozen houses and it would leave three. They would be untouched and then on the other side there would be another two dozen houses gone.
“It almost seemed taunting. And anything that’s that dangerous to begin with, that seems to be able to have a mind of its own… to just flaunt its power, almost, saying: ‘I’m going to do this and there’s nothing you can do about it,’ we should have been terrified.
“We should have been absolutely terrified. But we had a job to do.”
RCMP officers ran door to door through the smoke, making sure neighbourhoods were evacuated. They gave rides to people who needed help getting out, including a woman confined to a wheelchair whose home later burned to the ground.
“It’s very emotional,” said Wood Buffalo RCMP Supt. Lorna Dicks, who was interviewed for the documentary. “I look at that video… and just the pride I have in all the RCMP officers that responded that day. They put themselves in the middle of the fire, they put their lives on the line and put everything at risk to get the community out.
“The incredible amount of pride I feel for those first res ponders, it overwhelms me.”
Watch below: The RCMP in charge of the Wood Buffalo detachment on May 3, 2016 opens up about that day
“While the detachment didn’t burn, we lost access to both police stations up there,” Poitras said, adding they had to set up a mobile command post. That, and the remote location of Fort McMurray, compounded the challenge.
“If you run out of supplies, where do you go?
“You realize that in some other incidents that we’ve had… you have cities around you you can go to,” Poitras said.
“It was quite a logistical feat.”
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In the days that followed, Wood Buffalo RCMP received support from several detachments across Alberta, B.C. and the Maritimes.
During the next few weeks, RCMP secured the evacuated areas, assisted with animal rescues and continued to escort residents from camps north of the city. Then, in June, the RCMP worked with the municipality on the phased re-entry plan.
Click here to watch the Alberta RCMP’s wildfire documentary.